Do you believe that males can become multi-orgasmic? Is there any truth in it or is it simply a fantasized myth?
The phrase being multi-orgasmic is usually referred to when describing a woman. Magazines talk about it all the time; how women can have more than one orgasm in repeated sessions of lovemaking during the course of one prolonged sex session.
Now when we consider men, it is usually in the context of men having one orgasm and then needing recuperation time before being able to become aroused enough to climax again. Most men would admit to needing this recuperation time, even younger men who may be able to regain an erection quickly and some men would admit to this second arousal being a real problem for them.
This is where things come unstuck in the bedroom. There are jokes about it, there is embarrassment about it and most accept it as fact that this is the way are bodies are meant to work, but for many couples who are very happy in their relationships, premature ejaculation is a huge problem for them both. There is the male partner on one part having reached a climax and happy with that fact but unhappy that the female partner is not fulfilled and having to resort to alternative stimulation to achieve satisfaction.
In a well know sex study by Alfred C Kinsey it was reported that 75% of men ejaculated within two minutes of vaginal entry. Some would say it is a cruel act of nature that our bodies are so out of sync during what is such an enjoyable and important part of our relationships. Most women heartily agree that they definitely need more than two minutes to reach orgasm and this is where the premature ejaculation problems begin.
It is clear to us all, men and women, that our bodies work very differently and because of the emotional attachments partners have for each other and the pressures of being able to perform, both parties begin to feel inadequate or guilty. Men need to know that most males want to sustain their erections to be able to pleasure their partners and women need to know that they are not alone in never having had a vaginal orgasm. Acceptance is not the key to this problem, because there is a problem and it can be fixed if you have a loving relationship that you want to feel sexually fulfilled within it. This is not one person's problem! No more fibbing by women who pretend to have orgasms when they actually don't and no more flippant boys humor about what happens to all men during sex. This is the way our bodies work and it is the responsibility of both participants to look for a solution and work on it together.
Let me tell you this; men can achieve orgasm and still maintain their erection and sexual arousal. You heard me right! It isn't too good to be true and can be mastered by following a program of techniques, preferably with your partner. It is simply a case of learning a new skill and if you want it badly enough you will study the manual just as you have done with every other skill you had to learn. It doesn't matter how old you are and it doesn't matter what your physical attributes are, as long as you are healthy and do not suffer from a heart complaint, you can learn how to control your orgasms and prolong your erection. It's not a myth; it's not an impossibility; it just requires the knowledge and a little pleasurable practice.
Learn how to take control. Become the master of your penis instead of the other way around. Stop premature ejaculation and discover the ultimate in pleasure as a multi-orgasmic man.
Others have mastered these techniques and achieved success. Follow them yourself and you too will learn the secrets to the age old problem of stopping Premature Ejaculation.
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